A week ago my little sister was admitted to hospital because her childbirth was delayed .We always hear about heart-rending stories about tough delivery.For this reason we were worried.
I can’t deny that I am very excited to be an aunt again , but I was anxious too ,so anxious.I even went as far as telling her the other day to give up the idea of having another child in the future .I didn’t mean to bother her though I did ,but seeing her in pain and the fear that something bad might happen to her scared me to death.
My mother believes that giving birth to children is what keeps life beats throbbing and she’s right for joy swept our house with the arrival of Jasmin, Joseph, Lina,and Jacob but the fear was great too.
Life is not free ,neither is happiness.It seems like pain is the coin that we must put in life pocket to enjoy the pleasures in it.As a muslim, I was taught that pain is our God’s way of purifying us from our bad deeds and that the almighty distributes pains to people according their ability to endure and the secret of survival lies not only in faith but in love for life itself. Yes, though life is painful most of the time,the rewards are worthy of keep going no matter what happens or will happen.
A poem by Abdel Hakim Atiya ( Algeria )
Translated by Sihem Hammouda (Tunisia )
Darkness and Mist
Darkness me overwhelmed,
Mist my cities shrouded,
And sorrow in all roads cloaked.
A train I am,
From the steam age,
Inside a tunnel, blindfolded,
Fumbling for gleams of sunshin
Looking for thy smile ,
Appearing on the twilight.
Sorrowful thou art ,
I , like a candle burnt ,
Toward thy doleful world set out ,
Quit,
Me my muse visited,
Words of longing on paper I sprinkled ,
And exploded into passion.
The blaze of my poem,
With life burst,
I my soul surrendered
To the ocean of your eyes,
My love, I am a man into thy immersed,
A gleam of light, I am
With path, our dream I sharpened And with pens of divine secret fate wrote this passion
I defied the maze of nightmares ,
With thy love in my breaths,
I descended my soul’s defeats,
To ascended your hair tresses.
I truly admit,
I turned you into an immortal story
Because thou art
A woman who outdid Cleopatra
Zenobia and all queens of the East
Deeply-rooted thy echo in the cave s of my soul is,
All distances thou art ,
Every crossroad too .
ظلام و ضباب
غيبني الظلام
ضباب غطى مدائني
حزن لبس كل الطرق
انا مثل قطار
من عصر البخار
مغمض العينين داخل النفق
ابحث عن خيوط الشمس
ابحث عن ابتسامتك
تلوح على محيا الشفق
عندما تحزنين
احترق كالشمعة
نحو عالمك الحزين انطلق
لا اكلم احدا
جائني الالهام
انثر حروف الشوق على الورق
انفجر عشقا
وميض قصيدتي
بالحب ينفلق
ارخيت ذاتي
في بحر عينيك
وانا فيك حبيبتي انسان غرق
اني خيط من الضوء
على الدرب سننت حلمنا
والقدر بأقلام الغيب كتب هذا العشق
حملت شعلة عشقك
تحديت متاهة الكوابيس
وحبك بين انفاسي قد شهق
نزلت من انكسارات ذاتي
صعدت جدائل شعرك
اعترفت بلا بهتان و لا كذب
جعلتك قصة التاريخ
لانك امراة تفوق كيليوباترا
وزنوبيا و كل ملكات الشرق
صداك ضارب في كهوف نفسي
وكل المسافات انت
وكل مفترق الطرق
That we can’t go beyond what meets the eyes is not only an indication that we are perfect human beings ,but also a blessing that unfortunately go unnoticed by us. At times , we wish we could read others like an open book and see inside their hearts to know their real intentions, their hidden thoughts and true feelings to spare ourselves deception and disappointment , loss and pain. And we go on to wonder why Allah didn’t infuse us with that majestic power which is something easy for him, “The Originator of the heavens and the earth . When He decrees a matter, He only says “BE!” – and it is. [Noble Quran 2:117] . We need to remember that whatever Allah does, is for our best. Allah says :’…and it may be that you dislike a thing which is good for you and that you like a thing which is bad for you. Allah knows but you do not know.’ (Surah Baqarah: 216) .Imagine that people can read your mind in the same way you can read theirs .There might be dreadful secrets you don’t want to share or dark thoughts you don’t want others to hear or speak of, in that some secrets are too dreadful that the most trustworthy friends would shun you because of them and some thoughts are too painful that they can kill like a son’s feverish wish that his sick father dies soon to inherit his lands , a husband’s past love affairs or a saint’s criminal past .This may explain why most of the people don’t say what they think or say what they think you want to hear or they just keep their opinions to themselves to spare themselves trouble and spare others pain .The prophet Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم (May peace be upon him) said :”a good word is better than silence and silence is better than evil talks!.” The same issue was highlighted in Ephesians 4:29 “Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.”Also,by not letting others step into your inner world , Allah is giving you a space of your own to reconsider your thoughts before you act, for once a dark thought is translated into a word or an action ,it cannot be effaced from people’s memory for our actions define us , even if people forgive us ,they will never ever forget and they will always remind us of our misdeeds even if they are as old as the hills . It’s necessary to reconsider our thoughts ,opinions before we speak and act .This will help us to wipe out evil thoughts and embrace good ones, and that we sometimes say or do what we do not really think or mean proves that we can control our thoughts as well. Then when negative thoughts about others go through your head ,try to put yourself in their shoes to understand why they behave they way they do . Also, try to count your gains once your real intentions are revealed and you will find out that it is a zero -sum game .Whereas your gains will outnumber your losses if your actions mirror your real intentions, good intentions. Like christians ,we muslims believe that every man has with him a companion from among angels and a companion from among the a (demons) as prophet Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم May peace be upon him said “There is no one among you but he has with him a constant companion (qareen) from among the jinn and a constant companion from among the angels.” They said, “You too, O Messenger of Allaah?” He said, “Me too, but Allaah has helped me against him (the devil-companion) and he has become Muslim.” and the evil thoughts come from the shaitan that strives to turn us from doing good , and to not fall in his trap ,we must discard those evil thoughts by seeking refuge in Allah . Say ” I seek refuge in Allah from shaitan,the accursed one” and the evil suggestions will go away from you. Remember that you can’t blame the shaitan for your actions for you are the doer . It is related by Abu Hurairah that the Apostle of God said:“God has forgiven my followers evil thoughts and misgivings and there will be no punishment on them until they are acted upon or uttered by the tongue .Bukhari and Muslim. Do istagfar ,say ” I seek forgiveness of Allah” when you had bad thoughts .Prophet Muhammad used to recite this at least 100 times a day and used to offer night prayers till his feet became swollen. Somebody said, to him,” “Allah has forgiven you, your faults of the past and those to follow.” On that, he said, “Shouldn’t I be a thankful slave of Allah)?” (Bukhari, Hadith 4459) One also needs to understand that iternal thoughts is first and foremost Allah ‘s criteria to measure our faith and honesty towards him . Allah doesn’t judge us by our actions but by our intentions into our hearts because actions can be soaked with hypocracy in that people do things to please the creatures not the creator . Some pray to attain the pleasure of Allah while others pray to be seen by men and gain wordly recognition .The action is the same but the intentions are different, so is the reward. As prophet Muhammed صلى الله عليه وسلم (May Peace be upon him) said :”The worst of people with Allah on the day of judgment are the two-faced.” Remember that we can fool people but we can’t fool Allah who is all- hearer and all-knower .And fooling his creature is equally dangerous for being kind to others is a sign of our unconditional faith, a key to his love and our passport to heaven as prophet Muhammad said’“You will not enter paradise until you have faith. And you will not complete your faith until you love one another.” Hence Allah despises the hypocrites whose actions are not congruent with their intentions and loves those who worship him as though they see him . Abu Huraira (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said:‘if Allah loves a person, He calls Jibrael saying, ’Allah loves so and so; O Jibrael love him.’ And make an announcement amongst the inhabitants of the heaven: “Allah loves so and so therefore you should love him also, and so all the inhabitants of the heaven would love him, and then he is granted the pleasures of the people on the earth.” [Al-Bukhari and Muslim].
So let’s wage a war against bad intentions and dark thoughts .Let’s tame them in the same way we tamed rebellious waves and conquered lofty mountains . Let our words and actions be a mirror of genuine and kind thoughts and pure intentions not only because we are blessed creatures into whom Allah breathed his soul and evil doesn’t befit us.Let’s pour into the world kindness for “Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless. Mother Teresa.
That he’s different from you doesn’t mean he’s subordinate to you. Difference is the fount of knowledge, enrichment and enlightenment and beauty. Allah has created legion of different species of flowering plants, animals,fish, and human. Nature taught all creatures to live in peace and harmony for in their differences lies the essence of their survival. But she failed to tame human beings whose differences set their hearts apart ,and torn the map of their souls.You can sow the field of the other and he can pick the fruits ,that allured his mind ,or soul or heart ,from yours .I’m the other ,you’re the other .I can teach you a lot about my world to understand it better and you can enlighten me about yours too in return to not tread on some traps that might ruin the bridge of harmony we’re trying to build together .Because to understand how the other’s world works, is the secret of a strong bond .So ,when the other steps into your territory ,gift him a big basket that is replete with amazing traditions, inspiring folktales ,healing stories, instead of aiming your rifle to his heart.
That she or he left you behind doesn’t mean you’re not worth his /her love .It doesn’t mean that she or he is ungrateful either. Beginnings are like delivering child ;they’re painful ,but they bear life within them . Breaking up is a beginning.It’s a sea that is replete with pearls of hope, of life,of love, and of change .You just have to bend down and gather them to make out of them a necklace to put around the life and take that crown of sadness, off her beautiful head. Remember when you look back at those days , to look at them with grateful heart ,because she or he set you free to taste the happiness that you deserve, a happiness that you didn’t know with him or her.You wish sometimes that you can turn the clock back to do things differently to make things work .You wouldn’t wish that if that person is worthless. Deep down you believe there is good in him or her,and that giving up on you doesn’t mean she /he is not . The earth never bears grudge against the earthquake ,because she knows ,it’s nature’s way to start a new beginning the next day. There is no timeless earthquake , nor timeless sadness either.
Love! love! love! It’s my command for you today . Make it a rule in your life .
Love your wife whose beauty couldn’t stand the test of time but her genuine love for you does .Love her because she will be your wife in heaven but she will be more gorgeous and younger. Her grey hair and wrinkles are God’s way to test your love. Never give up on your wives .
Love your kids who are the jewelry of life . If you doubt that pay a visit to a childless home and you will seize the blessings of having a child .
Love your neighbors .I remember my mother telling me that even paradise won’t be a pleasant place to live in without people.
Love your work or find something you love and rejoice in doing even making paper planes or paper boats ,I love doing that ! You can go to places you have never been on a paper boat and can be any person you want to be in a paper plane.
I wonder why when the word “love” caressing our senses we blush or look away to not let other see the effect of that word on our souls .I wonder why when being kids, we didn’t feel that way . We were not afraid of that word .” I love you ” was a message from our heart that we just delivered to the receiver instantly and directly without crossing any bridges or choosing any short cuts . And delivering that verbal letter of love was always accompanied with a smile of triumph not a pinch of regret.I wonder why when we grew up , the word “I love you ” filled us with shame,guilt and fear. It’s shame because we should not take the first step to confess our love .It’s guilt because a decent person doesn’t fall in love . Some say love is taboo. It’s fear of rejection. Why does love comply to rules but hatred doesn’t .Why do people feel at ease when expressing their hatred and contempt but ashamed and reluctant when confessing their love.Why beautiful feelings are always enchained but negative feelings are flowing free everywhere.
Written by arabian roses
P.S I would be so grateful if you draw may attention to any mistakes you may find in the article above =)
When your night is starless,don’t blame the lonely moon. Laugh ,because laughter is contagious, and you will see glowing souls adorning the bare sky.
When your flowers fade away,don’t blame the rain. Cry ,and they will wake up, flowers love playing tricks to see how much you love them.When your heart is broken , don’t blame love. Gather the pieces and gift them to hope. He will find the right person to seal them.
When you fall down,don’t blame life.From ingratitude of others we learn to be grateful.We appreciate our blessings only when losing them.
When your shoes were torn, don’t blame the rocky road.Walk barefoot and feel its soft soul.That was nature’s plot to notice her and to be nice to her.
When a friend betrays you,don’t blame honesty. It’s Lord ‘s way to jog your memory.Look back at your life mirror,you might have betrayed a friend unknowingly once and he or she is waiting for your hearty apology.
توقف عن البحث عني باهتمام شديد حتى يتسنى لي ايجادك” جنفير سانتانيالو “
احيانا تكون الاجابات الني نحتاجها نصب اعيننا . احيانا يتطلب من صديق جيد او شخص لكي يقول لنا بان ” نتريث” !!!! . ربما مانسعى اليه هو في الحقيقة ينتظرنا بصبر لكي نتمهل و نتوقف عن الركض بشكل محموم حتى يتسنى له اللحاق بنا
نعرف في حياتنا اوقاتا تتطلب منا كفاحنا الاكبر و اذا كنا محظوظين كفاية سوف تطلب منا اجزاء من حياتنا دائما ان نتوغل ذلك العمق مع ذلك نجد في بعض الاوقات من حياتنا ما نحتاج اليه او بالاحرى ما نحتاج ان يعثر علينا في توقفنا و سكوننا . ربما السر في ذلك هو التوازن الصحيح للافعال والمثابرة و الاصرار و الصبر والاستعداد للتوقف حيث نحن و عندما نكون في حاجة لذلك . لنكن سعداء ولنبد الامتنان. لنسمح للبذور التي زرعتاها طوال الطريق بان تعلو حولنا في عظمة وبحب
ارنو من كتابة هذا الموضوع الليلة ان اذكركم انه لاباس من ان تتريث في كثير من الاحيان و ان تسمح للاجابات التي تسعى اليها ان تعثر عليك . فلسترخي الليلة ولتفم بشيء يجعلك سعيداجدا و ان كان ذلك يحنم عليك ان لا تفعل شيئا غير الجلوس في صمت فليكن ذلك! من يدري فقد نتلقى في لحظاتنا الهادئة الاجابات لاسئلتنا المهمة 😉 بقلم جنيفرسانتانيالو
“Stop looking for me so intently, so that I may find you.”
~ Jennifer Santaniello
Sometimes the answers we need are right in front of our face. Sometimes, it takes a good friend and person to say to us, “slow down!!!!”. Maybe what we are looking for is actually patiently waiting for us to slow down and stop running frantically about, so that it may finally catch up to us.
There are times in our lives which demand and require our biggest fight, if we are fortunate enough parts of our lives will always require us to dig this deep. Yet, there are times in life where only in our arrest, in our stillness do we find what we need, or rather, what we need finds us. Perhaps the key is just the right balance of action, persistence, determination, patience as well as the willingness to stop where we are when need be, and just be happy, feel grateful and allow the seeds we’ve planted along the way to rise up around us in greatness and
My intention in writing this post tonight is to remind you that it is ok to slow down every so often, and allow the answers you seek to find you. Sit back tonight, relax, do something that makes you incredibly happy and if that entails doing nothing other then sitting in silence, then so be it! Who knows, perhaps it is in our quietest moments that we receive the answers to our biggest questions (;
We woke up at 3:00 am for Suhur , which is a predawn meal in Ramadan , prayed , and read few chapters from Quran then all retreated to their rooms to take a rest. It was 5:00 am when it started drizzling. I was sitting at my desk staring at my notebook trying to write something but to no avail , my heart ‘s whispers wouldn’t come . I guess I have writer’s block . My spiral notebook is in a mess , it was a gift from my twin brother and I have to piece together its pages before he sees that . I love spiral notebooks but I fail to keep them one piece . It’s like I have a graveyard of notebooks.The house was so quiet .Crowing of roosters was overwhelming the serene horizon perfumed with drizzle beads . I jumped from my seat and headed towards the French window and opened it to greet the morning rain . I smiled at the sky that was studded with generous grey clouds . Deep down I know that Mika’el the angel of rain was soothing the heat of the earth by bathing its summer breeze before muslims start their fourth day of fasting by the command of Allah .We fast 14 hours a day in my home country . We abstain from eating and drinking from dawn to dusk and they’re very precious moments that a muslim treasures and the joy of breaking fast is unrivalled . Everything about Ramadan is rewarding , so is the feeling it creates within us ,that of gratefulness for being a muslim .When the sun goes down indicating time to break our fast , with the very first sip of water a fathomable but intangible feeling overwhelms me . A feeling that I know where it comes from but words can’t describe it . A feeling that makes my soul recite merely “there is no God but Allah ” .
Written by arabian roses
You draw a Muslim as a wolfman who preys only on flesh and blood of the innocent in your poem that drips with hatred , prejudice , bitterness and ignorance . You have imprisoned all Muslims in a bottle you call ” The suicideBombers” and released giant misleading thoughts and unfounded allegations . You talk as though you know everything about Islam , Quran and Prophet Muhammad’s words may peace be upon him . But you have zero knowledge about us .
♥There is no room for hatred in a true muslim’s heart , that muslim who follows Allah’s commandments and Prophet Muhammad’s teaching . A true muslim is raised to love , to forgive , and to spread life not to rob it . “The messenger of God said to me (Anas), Son, if you are able , keep your heart from morning till night and from night till morning free from malice towards anyone ; then he said, Oh! My son, this is one of my laws, and he who loves my laws loves me.”♥
♥A true muslim respects his non-muslim neighbor and he has duties towards him including protecting his interests when he is absent , showing him respect when he is present, helping him when he is inflicted with any injustice , not remaining on look-out to detect his faults ; and if , by any chance , he happens to know any undesirable thing about him , hides it from others . And, at the same time, he tries to desist him from improper habits, if there is any chance that he will listen to him , never leaving him alone in any calamity,forgive him, if he has done any wrong .♥
♥ That was and is the teaching of our beloved Muhammad peace upon him whom Allah Subhanoho wa-T’ala Says to him in The Holy Quran:
“And We have not sent you except as a mercy to mankind.” (The Prophets 21:107).
Our beloved prophet Muhammad may peace be upon him, enjoins us to show mercy towards non-muslims as he had always done . Some of his neighbors were non-muslims. He would be kind to them like the Jewish poor family he would regularly gave charity to . Even after his death , Muslims maintained his charity towards them . Another story bears witness to his mercy ,that of Christian delegation from Ethiopian churches who came to Medina and the Prophet opened up his mosque for them to stay in, hosted them generously, and personally served them meals. He said:“They were generous to our companions, so I wish to be generous to them in person…” ♥
♥A true Muslim doesn’t take lives either for life is sacred even that of small creatures and Allah the almighty will chastise those who trespass his commandment about that . Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him too preaches kindness not cruelty and hatred . It is narrated that during a journey the Prophet left his companion for a while. During his absence, his companion saw a bird called hummara and took two young ones away from the mother bird. The mother bird was circling above in the air, beating its wings in grief, when the Prophet came back and said: “Who has hurt the feelings of this bird by taking its young? Return them to her”. The Prophet companion then replaced the offspring in the same bush.Another stories tells that on the way to a battle, the Prophet army marched towards Makkah (now known as Mecca) to conquer it, they passed a female dog with puppies. The Prophet not only gave orders that the mother dog and puppies should not be hurt or disturbed, but posted a man to see that this was done.
♥A true muslim is not a murder or a ” suicid bomber ” . Allah condemns killing the innocent . Allah ,the almighty says in his holy book:
[Quran 60:8] GOD does not enjoin you from befriending those who do not fight you because of religion, and do not evict you from your homes. You may befriend them and be equitable towards them. GOD loves the equitable.
[Quran 8:61] If they resort to peace, so shall you, and put your trust in GOD. He is the Hearer, the Omniscient.
[Quran 4:90]”…Therefore, if they leave you alone, refrain from fighting you, and offer you peace, then GOD gives you no excuse to fight them.”
You refer to all muslims as “suicidbombers” in your poem and that’s wrong, and illogical and too judgmental . You disdain suicid bombers for taking lives of the innocent while you point an accusing finger at people ,calling them murders ,stripping them of their honor, kindness and humanity on the ground that a muslim exploded himself . You try to ruin the reputation of people who don’t know anything about harming others . Allah don’t punish people for the faults of others , each has to take the responsibility of their actions. Who gave you the right to judge people ? you don’t even know their names ,their background,their culture, or their dreams !
♥I am muslim and I am proud of being Muslim for Islam preaches love, tolerance, altruism and compassion .With every Dawn prayer ,with every Ramadan, with every new sunrise and new sunset ,I praise Allah for being a muslim for the serenity I feel is beyond description .♥Please make sure not to twist my words when reporting them next time . I didn’t say suicider bomb sisters and brothers in Islam . I said sister and brother in Islam , it was a warm greeting that you twisted its meaning .It would be more credible and honest to report my words as they are for honesty is a fabric of us as human too isn’t it?
Written by arabian roses
بما اني اتريث قليلا قبل اي تبادل مع رفيق سفر اخر في هذه الرحلة واخذ بعين الاعتبار ان ما في جعبتهم قد لايكون ما هم عليه في حقيقة الامر , ينعم علي “برؤية” مختلفة لمن ساتواصل معهم . علاوة على ذلك كل ما اراه و اسمعه ليس الا نتاجا ثانويا من التكيف الاجتماعي و الانماط الراسخة و انظمة من المعتقد و التجارب
ان الاحاطة علما بذلك جعل من ايجاد و الاتصال بما سوف اطلق عليه “بالنفس التاسيسية” امرا سهلا . وفي تساءلي عن ماهية هذه الروح قبل الالم , الخوف والهجر اجد الاجابة لكن كما انت دائما . فانا اتجاذب اطراف الحديث مع طفل الخالق الجميل والبريء والضعيف و الخائف والوحيد احيانا انا اتحدث الى “انا” ♥ . حتى
حتى وان صرخوا في , تكون المصفاة في مكانها مسبقا و بذلك ما اسمعه هو نداء للحب ورغبة لان يفهموا في ظل حقيقة ما هم عليه فعلا . من هذاالمنظور, استطيع بحق ان اكون عونا لهم كما انا. و رغم اننا نبدو مختلفين لاننا ننحدر من خلفيات و ثقافات و انظمة معتقد مختلفة الا ان” انفسنا غير المقيدة” ♥الطفل♥ قبل ان يدرب , هو نفسه تماما ودائما . انا انت
As I take a moment, prior to any “exchange” with another fellow traveler on this journey and consider that what they are be bringing to the table, may possibly Not be who they really Are, I am graced with a different “view” of who I am communicating with. Moreover and in Most cases, what I am seeing and hearing is just a byproduct of social conditioning, ingrained patterning, belief systems and experiences. With this knowing, it becomes easier to find and relate to what I will call “the foundational self”. As I ask myself who this soul was prior to the pain, fear, abandonment, etc. I find the answer to Always be the same. I am talking to a beautiful, innocent, vulnerable, sometimes scared and lonely Child of our Creator. I am talking to “me”~♥ Even if they are screaming at me, my “filter” is already in place and what I hear is a cry for Love, a desire to be understood and held in the Light of who they Really Are. With this “view” I can truly be of service to them, As “ME”. After all, we may look and sound different, come from different backgrounds, cultures and belief systems, yet our “unconditioned selves”, the *child* before training is Always exactly the same.
Whenever a woman asks for divorce , all point an accusing finger at her . All are all ears when narrating evil stories about her but deaf to her pleas to listen to her part of story as well. Even when she is a victim of emotional and physical violence, she shoulders most of the blame .
That wife brings marriage to closure, proves that man hasn’t praised Allah’s grace upon him . Woman is a soft creature who cherishes appreciation , respect , comfort and love. When a husband fails to teach her how to adjust in his world softly and safely she will seek another territory where she can have a space of her own or set up her own kingdom to live free from fear , abuse , prejudice and misjudgment.
A wife has countless rights over her husband, when not fulfilled , her trust and respect vanish and when they do, love perish for love is born of respect.
All women , no matter where they come from , no matter who they’re , are one and the same .They love to be tended like a rose , treasured like a precious stone , listened to like sea ripples and taken care of like a child for Allah the glorified and the exalted has created them as Prophet Muhammad peace upon him said, ” from a rib and the most crooked portion of the rib is its upper part; if you try to straighten it, it will break, and if you leave it, it will remain crooked, so I urge you to take care of the women.” (Sahih Bukhari, Volume 7, Book 62, Number 114).
Remember , if a woman has ever trod your gracious land, to appreciate her as she is and never try to change her because putting up with her flaws or silly habits is a token of your unconditional love . Rememeber to overlook her mistakes . By doing so, you teach her to overlook and forgive yours . Remember to keep your angers secrets from her for your home is nothing but a sanctuary where only hymns of love and compassion must be sung as a woman’s soul is so soft that angry talks can break her. Spare no effort to help her with household chores . One day the Messenger of Allah peace upon him paid a visit to the house of Ali and Fatemah peace upon them . He saw that Ali was sieving the pulses and Fatemah was busy cooking. On observing this the Prophet may peace be upon him remarked, “O Ali, I do not speak except what is revealed to me. Anyone who helps his wife in her domestic affairs obtains a reward of one year of worship equal to the amount of hair on his body. This year of worship will be as if he has fasted during its days and prayed during its nights. Allah will reward him equal to the reward of all the patient ones, Hazrat Dawood (a.s.) and Hazrat Isa (a.s.).”
Marriage is a story that you can make of it a fairytale the characters in it live happily ever after just with simple but hearty and loving smiles , apologies,gifts or surprises.
Written by arabian roses
The sea took the sun hostage,
Said the breathless dawn,
I saw him summoning an army of upheaving waves
And building an unconquerable castle.
He made the sun his queen
the sky sighed,
Always the sea has been true to his word
I give in my blue color
And he never takes our gracious sun.
He made the sand his messenger to us
the moon said,
It’s a letter from the sea
Since the dawn of man
The waves have carried your ships
of war and of peace.
The lovely sand guarded your letters of love
you entrusted with
and lay it at the feet of the beloved.
I has gifted you pearls to adorn her crown
after your reunion .
But you discrowned me for
your greed stole all my pearls
And tarnished my virgin waves.
you also turned my prestine sand into a graveyard of evil .
Today I took your sun hostage and make her my empress
To bring warmth to the cold heart of an emperor
Whose throne was unsurped .
Your night will be eternal till
Dolphins come home again .
Written by arabian roses
I don’t know where you come from but I know that miles ,mountains and seas which set us apart can’t t break that human bridge . I wish I knew your name for friends call each others by their name and it seems I’m a friend because you called me so . I would love to tell you that Me being a muslim,and YOU being a Christian ,or he being a muslim and she being a christian doesn’t give us the right to hurt or insult each other. I disdain any Muslim who forgets who he is and crosses lines Islam commands us not to trespass when dealing with others let alone when they’re non muslims. A muslim, as our beloved Prophet may peace be upon him said: “The Muslim is notan accuser, curser, curserwithevil tongue(bigcurser), or minorcurser“.
I also disdain any Christian who …. I can’t even have the courage and the power to write the words ,it feels like it ribs my heart to pieces – who insults our dearly loved Prophet Muhammad may be peace upon him . It’s not Jesus’s legacy to curse or insult.
A muslim is not a curser, neither is a Christian .We can talk ,discuss,enlighten each others gently.We can also answer each other’s questions to clarify sombre thoughts clouding our sense of good judgement softly . Remember that insults or offensive names will add salt to injury .You’re doing harm to Islam by betraying what Allah and his messenger has entrusted with as Allah and his prophet Muhammad may be peace upon him command us to be kind to non-muslims . Allah says
“God does not forbid you from those who do not fight you because of religion and do not expel you from your homes – from dealing kindly and justly with them. Indeed, God loves those who act justly. God only forbids you from those who fight you because of religion and expel you from your homes and aid in your expulsion – (forbids) that you make allies of them. And whoever makes allies of them, then it is those who are the wrongdoers.” (Quran 60:8-9)
Remember that some of our beloved prophet Muhammad’s neighbors were non-muslim and he would be generous to them ,visit them when they’re sick and help them in rough time. That is his of legacy mercy and kindness .
Allah endowed you with a precious blessing ; being able to write and read ,so use that gift to draw the beautiful picture of the muslim instead of uglifying by your insults and aggressive way that is strongly disdained by Islam. Violence begets violence . Hatred begets hatred . Genuine true love begets nothing but a genuine true love. Tame the power of your pen to unveil the beauty of Islam and mend their misjudgment. Write and when you write do it with honor .Prayer too is more powerful than violence so pray . Allah and his angels pray . Abu Umama reported that the Messenger of Allah said, “Allah AND His angels AND the people of the heavens AND the earth, EVEN the ants in their rocks AND the fish, PRAY for blessings on those who teach people good.” [at-Tirmidhi] (Aisha Bewley, Riyad as-Salihin (The Meadows of the Righteous), Book of Knowledge, 241. Chapter: the excellence of knowledge
Rememeber also that through the journey of your life you must have come across non-muslims who respect you being a muslim tha they are careful when picking their words to not cross lines with you because they know that a muslim should be treated with respect. I have met some . So let’s not lose a friend who would defend Islam guided by the beautiful and genuine picture we gift them .
I hope you read those words ,they’re meant for you ,you sound upset and sad and that saddens me . You said you have friends who are muslims ,believe it or not a muslim can make a great friend when following what Islam commands him or her to do ,as friends have rights , holy ones so never ever give up on them .
Written by arabian roses
It is a brilliant idea,that I highly recommend for all world leaders ,kings and queens for several reasons,good reasons.
Genuine friendship
Blogging is a golden opportunity to seize to make new friends of different fabric from the one you as a president are used to. Friends from all walks of life ,common people who will point out to your flaws rather than coloring them with bright glittering colours.The more sincere comments you write the more hearts you captivate.The more useful posts you publish,the more readers you win.Posts stand for your speeches,and decisions ,while comments stand for your reactions towards people’s criticism of your policy.While bloggers are the sincere counsellors.Blogging will teach you to accept and deal with criticism .Some will follow you ,while others will block you or mark you as spam.
No more treasure hunting
Blogging is a new hobby that world leaders can take up.It’s cheap,accessible and most of all safer than playing the part of Ali Baba and the 40 haramy ( thieves) that some are hooked on . Not to mention the part of Casanova that many love playing as well .
Besides people love writers . If you fail to make them believe your credibility as a politician, you can win them over as a writer,then as a ruler.
Practise makes perfect
Practise makes perfect,then presidents don’t need to hire a speechwriter as blogging will teach them how to write their own speech by themselves, a speech that will touch the listeners instead of the stony ones we used to,ones that remind us of the sound of an old man ‘s heavy wobbling walking stick :monotonous ,repetitive and ,nerve- wrecking. Here ,a president can learn how to make words come straight from his heart to dwell in the heart of his audience .I recommend the use of a cheerful background too,because not everyone is fond o f faces . Audience need something warm than that lifeless face and that forced smile that reminds you of George Orwell ‘s Big Brother is watching you .
Competitiveness
After election most presidents suffer from low performance and productivity.They don’t work hard the way they did when preparing for their election campaign due to the lack of rivals and competitors,and blogging is the best way to ignite that flame again because here all bloggers are competing with each other to have the best blog, to win readers.
blogging is a free nation
Blogging is a free floor to exchange ideas without one fearing losing his neck and this policy should be extended to real life . Like your posts ,your legislations and decisions concerning the nation must be open to discussion ,and instead of pulling a trigger to a head of a protestor ,take your pen and edit them.
Tight shoes
Why don’t presidents start blogging their speeches instead of delivering them face to face.Imagine doing that while sipping your icy tea ,playing your favorite music ,far away from blinding camera flashes,deafening shouts of reporters ,and a tight pair shoes that keep you from concentration,that they have to repeat every question for you.The outcomes will be fruitful due to the lack of distraction ,and tense atmosphere.
Happy blogging 🙂
Written by arabian roses
I hate it when you call her my inamorata, that word is mine.
It was me who made your car’s four tires flat the other day ,it wasn’t the delivery boy.
I didn’t want you to go to the mountains ,I had a bad dream.
It was me who put your black t-shirt in the clothing donation box, it wasn’t your mum. I hate it when girls liked it on you.
It was me who made myself catch a cold, I went barefoot in the rain. I love the way you get worried about me when I ‘m sick.
It was me who broke the CD your ex-girl friend gifted you .I hate that look on your face whenever you listen to it.
Some build a tower around themselves and with every passing day that tower gets higher and higher and the soul behind its walls becomes unconquerable filling the heart of those who pass by with amusement , bewilderment and fear.
Historically, that tower dated back to an ancient time of painful stories that set the heart and the soul of the his lord or lady on fire of resentment, hatred and isolation ,it’s a human tower.
Some build them but deep down they hope someday someone will find the key to set them free and douse that fire .They wait for an invasion of an invincible army of genuine human compassion and pure love . Lets’ not spin horrifying stories about the lord or the lady of the stony tower .Let’s leave no stone unturned to find the key to the heart of that tower . The other is full of kindness, love and knowledge .Let’s not leave space for misjudgment or pride to dash one’s hope to rejoice in hi or her company.
I whisper into withering flowers your name to enliven them.
I make of every passing cloud a love messenger to you.
I chase moonlight to feel the touch of your face
When she falls on you .
With migrating sparrows I send you my love poems.
With rain drops, I awash away your sorrows.
Your heart is my home,
Your smile is my moon.
Seas or deserts set us apart,
Love is a restless nomad.
Written by arabian roses
1-Having a daughter or a sister brings heaven at your feet In pre-islamic arabia , girls were buried alive .“When news is brought to one of them, of [the birth of] a female [child], his face darkens, and he is filled with inward grief! With shame does he hide himself from his people, because of the bad news he has received! Shall he keep this [child] despite the contempt [which he feels for it] or shall he bury it in the dust? Oh, evil is indeed whatever they decide!” – The Quran (16:58-59) .But Islam has come to draw the curtain on this devious ritual to teach barbarians that daughters are nothing but undrained fount of blessing that Allah has promised those who are kind to their daughters or their sisters a place in paradise .Also ,Quran chastises Parents who choose sons over daughters .Like boys , girls must be provided with everything that will turn them into successful , and pious persons. 2-Woman is a precious pearl
Woman’s hijab is her holy armor against luscious gazes .She is as precious as sea pearls and earth diamonds. The sea engulfs greedy ships to harbor his pearls. Mountains shield their diamonds and so does hijab. Muslim woman loves her hijab and she doesn’t wear it against her will ,a truth that those who hate Islam do everything in their power to twist it and portray Muslim woman as a slave deprived of her freedom.
3-Woman is not a public property
Woman’s body is sacred in Islam .His secrets must be unveiled only to a husband . When disgracing it, woman will be stoned to death or whipped to purify her body and soul .
Allah wants man to appreciate woman ,to respect her, to honor her and to love her , and fornication is not the decent way to embody all that.What apperciation is in putting woman through rough times because of unwanted pregnancy .What love is in shunning woman after preying on her body and soul just because man thought he was in love with her but it turned it wasn’t .
4-Woman is treasured as a wife
The most divine moments shared by woman and man are sacred that Allah commanded husbands to be kind to their wives . A man for instance is forbidden from forcing his wife to sex “O ye who believe! Ye are forbidden to inherit women against their will. Nor should ye treat them with harshness, that ye may take away part of the dower [money given by the husband to the wife for the marriage contract] ye have given them, except where they have been guilty of open lewdness; on the contrary live with them on a footing of kindness and equity. If ye take a dislike to them it may be that ye dislike a thing, and God brings about through it a great deal of good (Qu’ran An-nisa 19) Anal sex and sex during menstruation are prohibited for their ominous health hazards as well .“If anyone [resorts to a diviner and believes in what he says (according) to the version of Musa) or] has intercourse with his wife (according to the agreed version) when she is menstruating, or has intercourse with his wife through her anus, he has nothing to do with what has been sent down to Muhammad.”—Narrated by Abu Hurairah, Book of Divination and Omens.
Suna Abu Dawud.
5-Why 4 wives?
Woman has outnumbered men , and man’s marrying four women is Allah’s wisdom to keep woman from falling in the abyss of evil and protect society .
It should be noted that Allah allows but does not command a man to have four women .And when marrying 4 , he has to treat them equally. Allah says: “Marry women of your choice, two or three, or four; but if you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then only one or (the slaves) that your right hands possess. That is nearer to prevent you from doing injustice.” [4:3]
or he has to have just one wife . Marriage is so sanctified that Allah’s throne shakes when the sacred bond between husband and wife is broken . In Islam woman must be honored for she holds all secrets of life ,beauty and love.
Drop a coin on the ground.The wind will carry it and lay it at the feet of a destitute whose pride kept him from begging compassion. Trust the wind , he’s the god ‘s servant.
Thank the lemon tree or the apple tree in your yard . Over years ,she has shielded you from the ablaze locks of sun and given you the most delicious fruits .Like women ,trees love to be appreciated .
Pray for your teachers whenever you read a book .Without them we would have been trapped in the abyss of merciless ignorance.They’re honored by god,don’t disgrace them, for they’re messengers in disguise.
Don’t hurt the one who loves you but you don’t love.They are the lighthouse when your ship is at loss.They can find you when no one else can.
“The voice of life flows through many vessels and though we cannot claim all poetry as our own, the Oneness of our hearts always share the same story in myriad verses~ We Are One~! Blessings of Love~ ” By Satprem http://quantumzen.wordpress.com/
Be a lulling ripple
When he becomes an uneven sea.
Shred his armor of sorrow.
Tell the soft breeze to carry his restless ships
To genie lands and trade them for
Ancient arabian perfumes
To turn his days into a beautiful fairy tale.
Be a shining star
When the sun sets.
Like a fearless shooting star
Break against his aloof shores
And sprinkle your light
To tell you his hidden wishes.
Written by arabian roses
Close your eyes
Open your heart to the conch.
She is going to tell you a secret.
Hold her close to your heart
The haughty sky is eavesdropping.
Hold her tight to your soul
She is going to tell you
Epics about seamen
Betrayed by mischievous waves.
And wisper into your ear
Names of beloved ingrained on the sand
And washed away by sea’s shaking hand,
Confessions of kings
Had tamed invincible tide
But yield to a woman’s tender gaze.
Kiss the restless conch
And promise her
To keep her secrets.
Written by arabian roses
People around us keep showering recipe of happiness on us , recipes they tried and worked and they wish with all their heart to work for us the way they worked for them , to bring us happiness that we end up with a package of happiness . Some recipes leave us bewildered ,as we ‘re not sure which one to choose . Others muddy the serenity and contentment within us as we start questioning whether the happiness we live is true or fake for none of those recipes is compatible with ours .
Happiness is not a recipe to try ,it can’t be taught either. It’s a unique experience .Sometimes it takes time to figure out what makes us happy .Sometimes we have to endure pain and loss to figure out the essence of our happiness .
Some weave their cloak of happiness from the unconditional love of a mother , from helping people they barely know, from the mere thought that sharing their loaf with a homeless keeps hunger at bay ,from kissing their father’s forehead when asking forgiveness for raising their voice rudely or from seeing others happy even though they have a slight share of their happiness.
Others see happiness as a bubble ; it withers once they have it so they spend their entire life in the pursuit of things they don’t have and they don’t need . Happiness is to have what is in other’s hands as well .
Happiness can wear many masks ;some masks are ugly .Other masks are beautiful and it’s t up to us to choose which one to wear and once choice is defined by one’s up bringing, religious belief, other’s expectations or the way one feels about themselves .
When your night is starless,don’t blame the lonely moon. Laugh ,because laughter is contagious, and you will see glowing souls adorning the bare sky.
When your flowers fade away,don’t blame the rain. Cry ,and they will wake up, flowers love playing tricks to see how much you love them.
When your heart is broken , don’t blame love. Gather the pieces and gift them to hope. He will find the right person to seal them.
When you fall down,don’t blame life.From ingratitude of others we learn to be grateful.We appreciate our blessings only when losing them.
When your shoes were torn, don’t blame the rocky road.Walk barefoot and feel its soft soul.That was nature’s plot to notice her and to be nice to her.
When a friend betrays you,don’t blame honesty. It’s Lord ‘s way to jog your memory.Look back at your life mirror,you might have betrayed a friend unknowingly once .
We are like coins.Capricious life keeps tossing us mercilessly but when we fall down, we expect people watching to see both sides of us not only one , not only the ugly side.
Always the beloved beautiful daughter in law or the loving wife becomes roots of all evil and must be shunned like a leprous once signed divorce papers. Always ,the dedicated father turns into a devil’s accomplice once he disinherited his child.What about seeing the other side of the coin, that you have always enjoyed .She might be messy, but sometimes a wife becomes one when she’s torn between family obligation and work.She is in bad mood .Well a wife can be a nuisance in the neck if you try to twist her genuine self.
Try to polish the side of the coin that your anger and disappointment blinded your eyes to see , that side on which good qualities are ingrained ,qualities that you loved once upon a time and your happiness flourished in the land of them.That person is the same ,it’s your interpretation of him that has changed due to passing circumstances. We do when people do not meet our expectations which is utterly unfair because we do not live to meet any person’s standards as far as our standards do not hurt others .
His wife was messy but she was hard-working ;she tried her best .She was moody but she was understanding and loving .She never hesitated to admit to her mistake or apologise .Tame yourself to look at people from both sides and that will teach you to be fair when judging them .It will even teach you to never judge them ,for no one is entitled to be in the position of a judge, only the Lord has the right to because he’s the only one who knows what is in our heart and mind .
Remember by seeing the two sides of people in their fall down and strength ,you learn to put yourself in their shoes to understand why they act that way in that situation towards that person. By doing that you find an excuse to them as you, yourself might act the same way or feel the same way or even go too far .
When people fall down in the abyss of anger, of ingratitude,of selfishness,of lies , or misbehavior ; don’t shun them or preach them .Rather, give your hand and lift them up. And the best way to Put up with people in their worst parts is you remembering and reminding them about their best parts they played on the stage of life.
That she or he left you behind doesn’t mean you’re not worth his /her love .It doesn’t mean that she or he is ungrateful either. Beginnings are like delivering child ;they’re painful ,but they bear life within them . Breaking up is a beginning.It’s a sea that is replete with pearls of hope, of life,of love, and of change .You just have to bend down and gather them to make them a necklace to put around the life and take that crown of sadness, off her beautiful head. Remember when you look back at those days , to look at them with grateful heart ,because she or he set you free to taste the happiness that you deserve, a happiness that you didn’t know with him or her.You wish sometimes that you can turn the clock back to do things differently to make things work .You wouldn’t wish that if that person is worthless. Deep down you believe there is good in him or her,and that giving up on you doesn’t mean she /he is not . The earth never bears grudge against the earthquake ,because she knows ,it’s nature’s way to start a new beginning the next day. There is no timeless earthquake , so is sadness.
That he’s different from you doesn’t mean he’s subordinate to you. Difference is the fount of knowledge, enrichment and enlightenment and beauty. Allah has created legion of different species of flowering plants, animals,fish, and human. Nature taught all creatures to live in peace and harmony for in their differences lies the essence of their survival. But she failed to tame human beings whose differences set their hearts apart ,and torn the map of their souls.You can sow the field of the other ,he can pick the fruits ,that allured his mind ,or soul or heart ,from yours .I’m the other ,you’re the other ,I can teach you a lot about my world to understand it better ,you can enlighten me about yours too to not trod on some traps that might ruin the bridge of harmony we’re trying to build.Because to understand how the other’s world works is the secret of a strong bond .So ,when the other steps into your territory ,gift him a big basket that is replete with amazing traditions, inspiring folktales ,healing stories, instead of aiming your rifle to his heart.
When the daylight teases you, embrace it , and don’t take your beautiful eyes away from him. Spread your arms ,and try to race the sun ,and reward yourself with a tender flower for reaching places she can’t reach. Look up at the sky and trace the migrating moon and if he turns round thank him for lightening your solitude. Shred your armors of gloom ,and clothe yourself in attire of hope and joy .It’s a new start .It’s a new day. It’s your gift to complete your unfinished painting of life and there spring is holding in his hand bright colors waiting for your commands.So choose a bright color that personates you , a color of love and hope.
“And among His signs is this, that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that you may dwell in peace and tranquility with them, and He has put love and mercy between your (hearts): Verily in that are signs for those who reflect.” (Quran 30:21).
“Marriage is an inescapable evil “I heard this statement by some ,but it’s not , for a true Muslim. It’s a package of blissful gifts. Marriage keeps the hideous evil at bay including fornication and other distorted ways to satisfy lust that rot the soul and the body. For example people who fornicate from partner to partner reap what they sow ,a crop of deadly sexual diseases and generations of illegitimate children.
Allah created man and woman and commanded them to keep chase till their souls and bodies are united under the wing of marriage.Virginity in Islam is a token of purity,it’s the gift that mn and woman offer to each other . In Islam ,a fornicator should marry but a fornicator not a virgin or a chase person .Allah says:
” The fornicator shall not marry save a fornicatress or an idolatress, and the fornicatress, none shall marry her save a fornicator or an idolater; and all that is forbidden unto the believers.”Surah Al-Nur.
Also The Holy Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said: A Muslim man can acquire no benefit after Islam greater than a Muslim wife who makes him happy when he looks at her, obeys him when he commands her, and protects him when he is away from her in herself and in his property.’
Marriage combats deadly sexual diseases,and provides sound pillars for a healthy society and keep the nightmarish future of a clans of illegitimate children away .Besides the spread of immoral crimes like a brother marrying his sister unknowingly , for one of them was the output of a gloomy night of foggy souls driven by lust ,or by wine or by drug.
That your marriage collapsed doesn’t mean it’s a barren land.It doesn’t mean that marriage is a house doomed to fall down either .It’s your choice of the rotten seeds that ate it away to the bone.In Islam, man and woman are advised to choose their marriage partners . The Prophet Muhammad may peace be upon him says: “Make a wise selection for your sperm”.He also says: “A wife is chosen for four qualities: her faith, family status, wealth and beauty. Choose the one who is strong in faith”. “If any of you proposes to a woman, he should try to see of her what encourages him to marry her” In another hadith the Prophet is quoted as saying to one of his companions: “Look at her, for that helps to bring you closer together”. It’s very important to choose your partner to ensure the success of marriage psychologically, socially , and sexually.
Marriage is that armor that will protect the soul and body of society against corruption ,so try your best to not dim its light by making the right decisions and choosing the right partner.
Written by arabian roses.
Was it worth it to let a friend in need down ? If you do, who’s then going to carry your coffin? Only a friend’s shoulder can bear the weight of your cold bones.
Was it worth it to scream at your old mother ? If you do, how then are you going to pay her lost whispers to sooth your young frail soul back? Only your tender voice can empower her weakness.
Was it worth it to unveil a woman or a man’s sins ? If you do, how then do you expect the Almighty to cover yours? Only your prayers for them can dim the darkness of sin in you.
Was it worth it to argue with your neighbor on worldly possessions? If you do then who’s going to dig your grave? Only a neighbor and a father and a son weep when entrusting the earth with you .
Was it worth it to tak life from people ? If you do ,then who’s going to share with you winter ? Only human beings can dance under the rain.
Was it worth it to fight for worldly possessions that we will leave behind us when we die and take none ? Was it worth it to spend all our lifetime drowned in hatred because of tiny differences that Allah has created to keep monotony and brooding clouds away from our life and grow seeds of compassion in our souls?
يمكن ان تلتمس العناصر الرائعة لعالمنا في كل مكان وهي لاترى باكتشاف الغابات اوعبور الانهارفحسب , بل هي تدرك بحق انى لاتبصر العيون و انى يتخطى العقل .ان الفضاءات المفتوحة والشاسعة للعالم تحمل بين طياتها الكثير من العجائب في الفضاء البسيط الذي تحتله فقط.نجد هنا في عالم الحقول رحابة العالم الشاسع,نافذة على القلب و العقل .لايعد الحقل شيئا مميزا للبعض فهو ليس الا مساحة ممتدة من ارض تستعمل للزراعة اوللماشية.بينما يمكن ان يجد هؤلاء الذين يهتمون بالوقوف على اطرافه و النظر عبر البحر الشاسع من القمح و الحب شيئا مختلفا : حقيقة بسيطة تختبئ بداخلنا.نستطيع ان نصنع المعجزات للانسانية في رحابة القلب,فنصبح رحيمين. نتعلم ونشعر و ننمو. نشهد الحقيقة . نكبر و نحن نغذي هذا الانفتاح . و ننمو كما ينمو القمح متعاليا باتجاه الشمس عندما ندفئ و نروى. يستطيع الجميع ان يشهد هذه الفضيلة اذا ما اختاروا ذلك .فتح القلب هو فتح بيت ةهو فتح الذراعين لتسمح للحب ان يشع على كل المخلوقات . علينا ان نبقي القلب شاسعا كالحقول الكبيرة في هذه الحياة لاننا بذلك نكتسب القدرة على الرؤية في كل الاتجاهات.فيمكن ان ننتقل مع الرياح الاربعة وضم كل المخلوقات.تدعونا عوالم الحقول الى مجالها الفسيح .اعمل على ان تاتي الى هنا و ان تستمتع بذلك .المصدر : عالم المعرفة
Hello Kansas
The wonderful elements of our natural world can be witnessed everywhere. These are not only seen when exploring forests or navigating rivers, but are truly realized where the eyes generally don’t look and where the mind skips over. The great open spaces of the world hold many wonders, in just the simple space that they occupy. Here in the sphere of fields, we find the vast openness of the world; a window into the heartmind.
An open field for some is nothing special, just a long stretch of land used for farming or livestock. Those who care to stand on its margins and look across this vast sea of wheat and grain may find something different; a simple truth that hides within us all.
In the openness of the heart we can work wonders for humanity. We become compassionate, we learn, we feel and we grow; we witness truth. We grow as we nurture this openness, just as the wheat grows tall toward the sun, so do each of us when properly warmed and watered. All can witness this pleasant virtue if he so chooses. To open the heart is to open a home, to open the arms; to let love shine on all creation.
I once journeyed across the Great Plains, from the Gulf south up into the Black Hills of South Dakota. Along the way I crossed through Kansas. As I crossed the southern border, the gentle slopes of Oklahoma started to fall behind me and the flat, open plain of Kansas began to come into focus. The sun was near to set and the panoramic view I now witnessed was mesmerizing. I was compelled to stop and take it all in.
I parked my car aside a stretch of old country highway. I stepped onto the roof of my vehicle to get a better perspective. I could see for what seemed like miles in every direction. The sun cast a blueish pink hue over the open fields as the wheat tops gently waved with the breeze. The air was crisp and I was attuned to the majesty of the moment. I felt as though I was in the throes of God, witnessing a space of pure acceptance and love. I thought that this had to be the place where spirits come to play; to run free and grace the Earth with pure harmony.
In life, we must keep the heart as wide open as these great fields are. Doing this we gain the ability to see in all directions. We can move with the four winds and we embrace all creation. The sphere of fields invites all to its open space. Take care to travel here, and enjoy it.
“The sphere of rebirth is a gift to us. It is a promise of new life tomorrow. No matter our beliefs, the rhythm of nature is alive and well in both the physical world and in the spiritual realm. We should recognize and smile at them as they surely smile upon us.”
“هناك اشياء معروفة و اشياء مجهولة و بينهما ابواب الادراك” Aldous Huxley
لدينا العديد من الحدود في الحياة وهي تحيط بنا حتى و لم نكن نعي وجودها.يمكن للحدود ان تكون جسدية او عقلية او روحانية او ثقافية .علينا ان نحرص على تبين و احترام هذه االحدود كما عليناايضا ان نعرف ان عالم الحدود يمكن فهمه و عبوره اذا ما تناغم مع القلب .كلنا عرفنا ذلك المتحدث الذي يدنو منك كثيرا عند التحدث في وقت من الاوقات. لهؤلاء الاشخاص ادراكا ضئيلا لحيزنا الشخصي فنجد انفسنا نتقهقر لنجد مساحة و لنعود الى منطقة الراحة الخاصة بنا. يخنلف فهم كل شخص للحيز الشخصي كثيرا . لايمانع البعض من الاقتراب الزائد عند الحديث في حين يخجل البعض من ذلك وهذه هي الحدود الجسدية للناس . في العديد من البلدان بالتحديد الشرق الاوسط والشرق الادنى و الشرق الاقصى تعد رؤية الرجال الذين يمشون في الطريق و هم ممسكون بايادي بعضهم مشهداعاديا.ولكن يمكن ان ينظر اليه كدليل على المثلية الجنسية في المجتمعات الغربية في حين انه في الحقيقة ليس الا مظهرا من الصداقة و الوفاء .هذا حد ثقافي لا يفهمه معظم الغرباء . نحن مقيدون بفهمنا للمفاهيم الاجنبية في اللغة . فعبارة واحدة ملفوظة او مكتوبة باللغة الانقليزية يمكن ان تؤدي الى معنىا مختلفا كليا في كثير من اللغات الاخرى و حتى انها لا يمكن ان تكون مفهومة. فقد ياخذ البعض مديحا بسيطا في لغة ما على انه اساءة في لغة اخرى. علينا ان نخطو برفق في عالم الحدود لكي لا نسيئ للبعض. كما نختلف في تفسيرنا للدين و الفلسفة فيمكن ان يكون الكلام عن معتقدنا اساءة لشخص في حين يكون منيرا للبصيرة لاخر. و يعتمد ذلك على المعتقد و تجربة الشخص الفريدة . توجد عوالم الحدود العقلية و الروحانية جنبا الى جنب الا انها تعبر من قبل القليلين في حين يقف الاخرون على الحافة. امش بلطف على امتداد حدود الوجود فهي قد وجدت لتميز و تحترم .كما وجدت ايضا لكي تكسر بادراك قداستها. يمكن ان نقوم بذلك بقلب العقل .علينا ان نشهد انها هناك و انه يمكن عبور هذه الحدود بسلام من خلاال الاحترام و الشفقة . المصدر عالم المعرفة
“There are things known and things unknown, and in between are the doors of perception.” ~Aldous Huxley
In life, we have many boundaries. These are all around us even though we may not be aware of them. Boundaries can be physical, mental, spiritual and cultural. We must take care to recognize and respect these boundaries, and we must also know that the sphere of boundaries can be crossed and understood if one attunes the heart.
We all have known a “close talker” at one time or another. These individuals have little sense of one’s personal space. We find ourselves backing up to get room; to get back into our comfort zone. Everyone’s sense of personal space varies considerably. Some don’t mind the close talk, while others shy away from it. These are human’s physical boundaries.
In many countries, particularly in the middle, near and far east, it is a common sight to see men walking down the street holding hands. In western society, this can be taken as a sign of homosexuality, but it is in fact, nothing more than a show of friendship and loyalty. This is a cultural boundary that most outsiders do not understand.
In language, we are limited by our understanding of foreign concepts. One phrase spoken or written in English can impart an entirely different meaning in many other languages, or it may not even be comprehendible. Some can take a simple complement in one language to be an insult in another. We must tread lightly within the sphere of boundaries as to not offend others.
We all interpret religion and philosophy differently as well. A statement about one’s faith can be taken very offensively for one person, while another may see it as insightful. This all depends on the faith and the person’s unique experience. The mental and spiritual boundary spheres exist in tandem. They can be crossed by some, whereas others stand on the margin.
Walk softly along the boundaries of existence. These exist to be recognized and respected. These can also be broken by realizing the sacredness of them. We can do this with the heartmind. We must witness that they are there, and that through respect and compassion, boundaries can be crossed peacefully.
He steals the sea’s pearls, and the earth’s gold bangles and leaves them flowers instead . He told me that people kill to grow gold, but they won’t kill each other to grow flowers.
He steals the river’s joyful ripple to heal the rusty souls.He told me that nothing could rival a song sung by a river infatuated with life.
He steals all evil thoughts and cast on them love spells. He told me ,only magic can wipe them out,the magic of human touch.
He steals mountain’s highness .He told me it will teach man to never yield.
Muster your courage and tell the world you’re in love, because once you sing that song you will hear it everywhere, the world is just waiting for someone to beat the drum for the song of love.
I will write for you poems to your mother,your father ,your sister ,your bother,your grand parents, or your teacher .I want to do that because people feel so happy when they receive as a gift a poem that is specially written for them.
Hijab is muslimah’s crown. But for decades woman in Tunisia has been discrowned. ”The jewel of the sea, the pearl, has been given a very tough and rugged Hijab – oyster shell. It protects it from sea animals and keeps it sparkling and shining inside. Our body is sacred. You’re far more precious than diamonds and pearls, and you should be covered too.” But to not be denied her right to education , work ,and freedom ,Tunisian woman was forced to give in her crown, her hijab. Some women were even arrested and forced to sign a commitment to not wear hijab.
I still remember when at university , that man with ashen face standing at the gate of university ,a cardboard box in his hand ,urging every girl wearing hijab to remove it and put it there.Wearing hijab was a dream that Tunisian woman was yearning to be a truth. She proved to be a person full of potentials.She handled many responsibilities as a doctor,teacher,pilot, and journalist .She is a devoting mother, loving wife and inspiring woman, and she wanted to be Allah ‘s loyal servant too.She did everything in her way to gain back her crown ,the crown that Allah entrusted her with, in the hope that one day she can be that queen she is born to be .Some wore wigs .Others pretend to have flu but the weather-beaten cardboard box was always there.I was a coward , I didn’t dare to wear Hijab,because some humiliations were beyond endurence for a woman.The only time I wear hijab was when praying.Actually it was the case of most Tunisian women.I used to take my mother’s head scarves, stand in front of my mirror and try them.I was dying to wear it.Muslimah is incomplete without her crown.Now after the 17 th December revolution , Tunisian woman restored her religious freedom.Wearing Hijab is not a far-fetched reality anymore .Set free by the wind of revolution ,I started wearing hijab. I remember that day as if it was yesterday.I was in my room reciting Quoran .I stopped for a moment wondering; what’s the point of reciting Quran if I’m still uncovering my hair. I kissed the book then put it aside gently .I went to talk to my mother who was in the dinning room knitting .I told her that I took my decision to wear hijab.She was so happy to hear that .She reminded me that I should never take it off once I wore it.It’s sacred. The next day I went shopping .I bought new wonderful head scarves .I was happy when I went to work wearing my hijab.I was on the nine cloud .I still need to work on myself to be a good muslimah .I have many flaws ;stupid ones, and wearing hijab was a good start .Thanks for those brave men and courageous women who made my dream and the dream of many Tunisian women to wear hijab become a sweet reality.
I slowly lifted myself from the sack of hay. It was morning and as I looked around nothing seemed familiar, everything was vague. Where am I? What am I doing here? What happened to my army? Questions popped into my head all of a sudden after seeing nothing but lush green fields all around me completely surrounded by mountains. The last thing I remembered was the scene of me fighting an enemy soldier when my foot slipped and I fell into the river. I took another glance at my surroundings. It was for the first time that I was looking at nature so closely and leisurely. After such a long time I felt the wind blow against my skin. The fields looked so peaceful, the trees bore fruits.
“Hello stranger, finally you woke up.” I looked around and saw a man standing behind me, it was also for the first time in my life that someone had came up behind me without me noticing.
My addresser was a simple village peasant but his face showed no signs of worries or sadness. He seemed happy. “Hi” I finally muttered, staring at him.
“I found you unconscious by the bank of the river so I brought you here and dressed your wounds. By your suit you seem like an army man to me.” He said to me cheerfully.
“Oh yea, I am. I am a Raven in his majestic army” I replied and expected the villager to back away in fear, it was a common response to our battalion for we were the most brutal and skilled warriors in all the land. Children from all over the kingdom were selected at their birth by mages and then trained in only one art, “The art to kill” but the villager just smiled back and said, “Well you are not far from your camp, you can take the road to the north east and you will reach it in half a day. You are most welcome to stay with us if you want till you regain your health and will to fight again.”
I was baffled by this simpleton; did he not know who he was talking to? Did he not know that I was an assassin? That the only purpose of my life was to serve the king? That my only emotion was hatred? His generosity impressed me. It was the first time that someone had not been scared of me and was still talking to me for more then 5 minutes. I slowly stretched my lips and gave him what of a smile I could manage. “Thank you, stranger.”
“For?”
“For saving me and being kind to me.” I replied and stared into his love filled eyes.
“It’s called humanity, I am sure you would have done the same for me.” He smiled back at me.
I just shook my head while taking another glance at the peaceful land around me. The panorama was magnificent. The cattle grazed and the farmers worked as if they didn’t care what was happening all around them. All they cared for was their farms, they were not afraid neither of a cold blooded assassin like me nor of the war happening a few hundred meters from them. “Are you not afraid?” I finally asked the question which confused me.
“Of?” he said as he gave a bottle of water to me.
“Of me, of the war, of your future.” I took a small sip from the bottle and handed it back to the farmer.
“Death will come when it has to, you are only a human. So am I. I only fear the one who created you, who created all of this beautiful and bountiful land. I only fear God. And even if you kill me right now I would gladly accept my death for I know that God will give me paradise as He promised me.”
I don’t know why but his words had an effect on me. Small drops of water came to my eyes. I touched my eye with my index finger and collected some of them on my finger. I was staring at them in amazement when he spoke again.
“You don’t believe in God, do you?”
“No, I was taught only to kill, hate and obey. I am in shorter words the perfect assassin and the perfect soldier. I only live to kill; it’s too late to believe in him now.” I spoke as tears wet my face.
“It’s never too late; if you regret what you have done then surely He will forgive you.”
“But I have killed the innocent, I have never prayed.”
“So what? You protect the innocents too and He is the most merciful.”
I just smiled at him again. Mercy, another word, whose meaning always eluded me. He somehow sensed my dilemma and slowly spoke again. “It’s a long walk to your camp, Raven. You will have ample time to think about what I have said.”
I nodded and slowly started walking in the direction he showed to me. He was right in that walk I did think a lot and finally came to a conclusion. Unfortunately, just as I reached the camp the enemy ambushed the camp. And as I fought for my and the life of my comrades I kept thinking of ways to redeem myself of all the innocent blood I have shed. Of all the tears I have given to people. Just as I raised my sword to kill another one who was trying to enslave my people an arrow came and pierced my arm. My opponent snatched the sword from my hand and slit my throat. Everything became black. Far away at a distance I saw a light, a man was standing there. “Come into the light, son.” He spoke in a soft loving voice. It was the second time someone spoke so lovingly to me. I slowly made my way towards the light. As I got nearer to the light a beautiful place started to dawn itself on me. It was more beautiful then anything I have ever seen, “What a beautiful sight” I exclaimed. I wished I could stay in that moment forever. And somehow, somewhere, someone heard me and granted me that wish.
“Welcome to your new home, son. Your sorrow was enough to grant you an eternal place in paradise. Enjoy and be merry.” A voice spoke to me. I just let out a smile and felt the cool, calming and happy breeze blow my hair.
Tomorrow comes another day; happy with us, to give us joy.
Plant life with expectations, love and hope wherever we go.
Tomorrow, days will bring us together in goodness and peace.
Oh, World! Together, together , together we’ll colour the universe with our songs.
Who says we can’t change the face of the world today?
What do you say we erase darkness with the colours of the morning.
Believe! At all the crossroads, the roads will smile for us;
And no one, no one, will pass like a cloud in this life.
Whenever a morning gifts us with a rose, sun and a song;
Whenever an eagle finds us at the tops of mountains;
Dreams talking to us, a laughter calling for us.
Oh, World! Together, together, together we’ll change the universe with our wishes.
Who says we can’t be the weapon for Conscience?
To protect the lair of freedom, and guard its door?
Believe! At all the crossroads, the roads will smile for us;
And no one, no one, will pass like a cloud in this life.
Who says we can’t change the face of the world today?
What do you say we erase darkness with the colours of the morning.
Believe! At all the crossroads, the roads will smile for us;
And no one, no one, will pass like a cloud in this life
Ref. We are the voice of goodness; we are the sun of the days.
We are a new day; we are a banner for peace.
We are the flute of love and the soul of music.
We are a thousand and one nights from the East of dreams.
Tomorrow, the wings of love await us.
Tomorrow will be better with us together.
Open the doors for light, the night of sorrow will fade.
Ref. We are the voice of goodness; we are the sun of the days.
We are a new day; we are a banner for peace.
We are the flute of love and the soul of music.
We are a thousand and one nights from the East of dreams.
Ref. We are the voice of goodness; we are the sun of the days.
We are a new day; we are a banner for peace.
We are the flute of love and the soul of music.
We are a thousand and one nights from the East of dreams.
Tomorrow, the wings of love await us.
Tomorrow will be better with us together.
Open the doors for light, the night of sorrow will fade.
저 달빛 아래 너와 나 이토록 가까운데
在那明月下 我和你 隔离是多麼近
Under that bright moon, you and I, are separated by so little
손에 닿을 듯 눈에 보일 듯 더 아련한데
像要接触到你时 你的目光回转 那朦胧的回忆
When I almost touch you, your gaze turns towards that hazy memory
나 얼마나 더 살아야 널 다시 불러볼까
如能活下去 可以不可以再次呼唤你
If I live on, can I call on you again?
목이 메일 듯 숨이 멎을 듯 널 불러본다
难以发出声音 呼吸快要停止 尝试去呼唤你
It’s hard to make a sound, my breathing will stop, I continue trying to call to you
널 안고 바람이 불어온다 내 마음 씻어간다
你像被风抱拥般来 心像暮色般消失
It’s as if the wind has carried you here, fleeting like the twilight
어린 날에 꾸었던 소녀의 꿈처럼 따듯한
像年幼时梦见 像少女的梦似的 温暖的风
Like a dream of childhood, like a young girl’s dream, this warm wind
널 안고 달려간다 하늘 끝까지 간다
你自信的挺胸昂首的走到世界尽头
Confidently, you lift your head to walk to the ends of the world.
이미 지나가버린 어린 날 꿈처럼 아득한
像已过去 年幼的梦一般 相隔在远方
It’s already passed by, this youthful dream, and we are far from one another
또 기다림이 머물러 기나긴 밤을 새워
那不再等待的决心 使你彻夜不眠
The decision to stop waiting, keeps you awake at nights
너를 그리다 너를 그리다 또 짙은 어둠
In the dark of night, you continue to paint
널 안고 바람이 불어온다 내 마음 씻어간다
你像被风抱拥般来 心像暮色般消失
It’s as if the wind has carried you here, fleeting like the twilight
어린 날에 꾸었던 소녀의 꿈처럼 따듯한
像年幼时梦见 像少女的梦似的 温暖的风
Like a dream of childhood, like a young girl’s dream, this warm wind
널 안고 달려간다 하늘 끝까지 간다
你自信的挺胸昂首的走到世界尽头
Confidently, you lift your head to walk to the ends of the world
이미 지나가버린 어린 날 꿈처럼 아득한
像已过去 年幼的梦一般 相隔在远方
It’s already passed by, this youthful dream, and we are far from one another
언제나 처럼 또 올 것처럼 넌 그렇게 살다가
像往常一样的 探访你像风那样的生活
Life goes on as usual, seeking for you when you live like the wind
내 맘처럼 저 바람처럼
我的心 像那个风似的
My heart, is like that wind
넌 그대로 와 난 너에게 가 너를 안아
你身边只有我 我身边只有你 想以这个方法来拥抱
I am the only one at your side, you are the only one at mine, I wanted to use this to embrace you
바람이 불어온다 내 마음 씻어간다
心像风吹过那样被不留痕地冲洗
My heart is being gently cleansed by the passing wind
푸른 언덕 위에서 세상을 비추는 빛으로
你在那个蓝色的山上 发出照亮世界的光
On that blue mountain, you shine to illuminate the world
널 안고 달려간다 하늘 끝까지 간다
你自信的挺胸昂首的走到世界尽头
Confidently, you lift your head to walk to the ends of the world
깊은 어둠 속에서 내 맘을 비추는 소리로
在深夜中 照亮我的心斐
In the dark night, shine on my fluttering heart
나 나라라라 나나 라라라
나나 라라라 나 라라라 나나나
Na nararara… etc, you get the point.
달파란 하늘 아래 네 이름 불러본다
在晈洁的明月下 呼唤你的名字
Under the limpid moonlight, I call out your name
어딜가나 주었던 그 따뜻함으로 가득한
不论走到哪里 都感到风中充满对你的思念
Wherever you go, remember to feel the wind’s longing.
Mahmoud Darwish (Arabic: محمود درويش) (13 March 1941 – 9 August 2008) was a Palestinian poet and author who won numerous awards for his literary output and was regarded as the Palestinian national poet.In his work, Palestine became a metaphor for the loss of Eden, birth and resurrection, and the anguish of dispossession and exile.
Mohamed,
nestles in the bosom of his father, a bird afraid
of the infernal sky: father protect me
from the upward flight! My wing is
slight for the wind … and the light is black
Mohamed,
wants to return home, with no
bicycle … or new shirt
yearns for the school bench …
the notebook of grammar and conjugation, take me
to our home, father, to prepare for my lessons
to continue being, little by little …
on the seashore, under the palms …
and nothing further, nothing further
Mohamed,
faces an army, with no stone or shrapnel
of stars, does not notice the wall to write: my freedom
will not die, for he has no freedom yet
to defend. No perspective for the dove of Pablo
Picasso. He continues to be born, continues
to be born in a name bearing him the curse of the name. How
many times will his self give birth to a child
with no home … with no time for childhood?
Where will he dream if the dream would come …
and land is a wound … and a temple?
Mohamed,
sees his inescapable death approaching. But then
remembers, a leopard he has seen on the tv screen,
a fierce one besieging a suckling fawn. When it
came near and smelt the milk, it would not pounce.
As if the milk tames the wild beast.
Hence, I will survive – says the boy –
and weeps: for my life is there hidden
in my mother’s chest. I will survive … and witness
Mohamed,
a destitute angel, within a stone’s throw from
the gun of his cold blooded hunter. For
an hour the camera traces the movements of the boy
who is merging with his shadow:
his face, clear, like dawn
his heart, clear, like an apple
his ten fingers, clear, like candles
the dew clear on his trousers …
His hunter could have reflected
twice, and say: I will spare him till when he spells
his Palestine without mistakes …
I will spare him now subject to my conscience
and kill him the day he rebels!
Mohamed,
an infant Jesus, sleeps and dreams in
the heart of an icon
made of copper
an olive branch
and the soul of a people renewed
Mohamed,
blood beyond the need of the prophets
for what they seek, so ascend
to the Ultimate Tree
Mohamed !
(October 2000)
(*) Translation of 20/11/2000. All rights reserved.
Why Do Women Cry
“Why are you crying?”, a young boy asked his Mom.
“Because I’m a woman,” she told him. “I don’t understand,” he said.
His Mom just hugged him and said, “And you never will, but that’s O.K.”… Later the little boy asked his father, “Why does Mom seem to cry for no reason?”. “All women cry for no reason,” was all his Dad could say… The little boy grew up and became a man, still wondering why women cry.
Finally he put in a call to God and when God got back to him, he asked “God, why do women cry so easily?”
GOD answered…
When I made woman, I decided she had to be special. I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world, yet, made her arms gentle enough to give comfort…I gave her the inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times will come even from her own children.
I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going and take care of her family and friends, even when everyone else gives up, through sickness and fatigue without complaining…I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances. Even when her child has hurt her badly…
She has the very special power to make a child’s boo-boo feel better and to quell a teenager’s anxieties and fears…I gave her strength to care for her husband, despite faults and I fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart…I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly.
For all of this hard work, I also gave her a tear to shed. It is hers to use whenever needed and it is her only weakness.
When you see her cry, tell her how much you love her, and all she does for everyone, and even though she may still cry, you will have made her heart feel good.
He was just another stray dog, never knew where he belonged or where he came from. All he ever sought all his life was a home, someone to love him and care for him and he thought he found it in her. She was unlike any human he had ever seen before in his life. He followed her home just because he saw what he wished. At first she like every other girl was delighted with the knowledge of a lost puppy following her home. She took care of him, fed him and gave him somewhat of a shelter in a broken wooden box. But he didn’t mind, he was finally somewhere he belonged. Someone for once wanted him in life.
As time flew by, the new puppy which was a delight slowly started to become a burden. The smile she used to have when she fed him slowly vanished. Clearly she was had started to feel jaded but she was to reluctant to admit it. Their play time soon vanished and was replaced with random practical jokes she played on him but he still didn’t care. For he knew the person who took him in was still in her somewhere. With time her jokes started to get crueler and her attention slowly shifted into her own life.
As time flew by, the new puppy which was a delight slowly started to become a burden. The smile she used to have when she fed him slowly vanished. Clearly she was had started to feel jaded but she was to reluctant to admit it. Their play time soon vanished and was replaced with random practical jokes she played on him but he still didn’t care. For he knew the person who took him in was still in her somewhere. With time her jokes started to get crueler and her attention slowly shifted into her own life.
It had been years since she had actually sat next to him, patted him or hugged him. He still sat in the remains of what seemed to be the ruins of once a wooden box, more shattered than before he still didn’t care. He still wanted to remain by her side and protect her. As he stared at her, his left paw ached again. He stared at the scar of one of her practical jokes and howled in pain as it still hadn’t healed.
“Stupid dog, would you just shut up! Mum was right, should had gotten a parrot or something.”
He put her head under his paws and silently whined. Perhaps it was time for him to search for a new home or just go wandering in the streets like his childhood… He tried getting up but something was pressing him down. It was then he understood that she wasn’t someone he wanted… she had become someone he needed, she had become his obsession and now that obsession had taken over his body. He no longer was the master of his own will.
It was just another sunny day when it happened… He was out on his daily allowed walks when a car ran him over. The pain was unbearable, he knew his time had come but he didn’t want to die just yet. He wanted to see her once before he died. He tried getting up but couldn’t, the world around him slowly grew darker.
“It’s very difficult that he would survive, I would suggest that you make it easy on him and allow us to kill him.”
“Sure, go ahead. I won’t have to clean up the mess would I?”
“No, no… You’re going?”
“Yea, why?”
“Well most owners stay for the final moments…”
“Yea I would like to but I have a job that I have to attend to. I’ll pay the receptionist on the way out, don’t worry doctor.”
He slowly opened his eyes for the last time as he heard her voice but it was too late, she had gone. As the doctor stood over him with an injection of poison, he stared at the door thinking that she might come back… His world slowly grew darker once again, he looked up at his killer and in his eyes he saw something he had missed for years… There was compassion and sympathy in the vet’s eyes. He slowly howled for the last time and closed his eyes forever.
“I’ no good,I’m not good at anything , I can’t do it !”
Yes you can.What a man can you can .Nothing is unreachable even a woman’s heart , and man’s history is loaded with countless living examples on that .
In the olden days ,our ancestors used to sit in their rocky chairs and watch the full moon from a far , while sharing stories about its mysterious beauty. Ancient poets too used to spin their love poems ‘ lines from its silver light.But ,thanks to man’s determination , belief in himself, and conviction that nothing can stand in his way to reach what he wants , the desolate shy moon and her chaperons as well are made to take off their veils.
“I candoit” is your “open sesame” magic words to get what you want .Even if people doubt your worth ,or underestimate your intelligence ,you have to turn that into an incentive rather than a hindrance.Challenge is the motor that driving us towards success either challenging ourselves or other’s perceptions of us.
*write down the goals you want to achieve no matter how unreachable they look like .Remember no one had ever dreamed of flying in the past,look now people go skydiving on weekends.What was a far reached dream ,becomes a reality nowadays,and so does yours.
*Make a plan,and if things go astray ,reshuffle your cards .There are many options in life,and you have to pick out the suitable one to your goals.
*Work very hard to get what you want and never let tiredness and boredom overcome you .Rome wasn’t built in a day.
And always sing your hymn “I can do it” from the beginning to the end.Don’t let life beat you and bear in mind that you have in you what can turn your losses into a devastating victory :determination . Inspiring Chinese quotes
“Great souls have wills; feeble ones have only wishes”
“Failure is not falling down but refusing to get up.”
“A people without faith in themselves cannot survive”
“It does not matter how slowly you go as long as you do not stop.”
Smile , for when night spreads his wings ,your smile becomes the sunshine.
Smile, for when a heart breaks down,your smile becomes the bridge to the soul.
Smile , for when luck frowns, your smile becomes the ray of hope.
A smile is your gift when you’ can’t afford bying him/her a gift
A smile is the remedy that you recommend without perscription.
A smile is your wordless speech of kidness.
A smile is your outward message of love.