In pre-islamic arabia , girls were buried alive .“When news is brought to one of them, of [the birth of] a female [child], his face darkens, and he is filled with inward grief! With shame does he hide himself from his people, because of the bad news he has received! Shall he keep this [child] despite the contempt [which he feels for it] or shall he bury it in the dust? Oh, evil is indeed whatever they decide!” – The Quran (16:58-59) . But Islam has come to draw the curtain on this devious ritual to teach barbarians that daughters are nothing but undrained fount of blessing that Allah has promised those who are kind to their daughters or their sisters a place in paradise .Also ,Quran chastises Parents who choose sons over daughters .Like boys , girls must be provided with everything that will turn them into successful , and pious persons.
2-Woman is a precious pearl Woman’s hijab is her holy armor against luscious gazes .She is as precious as sea pearls and earth diamonds. The sea engulfs greedy ships to harbor his pearls. Mountains shield their diamonds and so does hijab. Muslim woman loves her hijab and she doesn’t wear it against her will ,a truth that those who hate Islam do everything in their power to twist it and portray Muslim woman as a slave deprived of her freedom. 3-Woman is not a public property Woman’s body is sacred in Islam .His secrets must be unveiled only to a husband . When disgracing it, woman will be stoned to death or whipped to purify her body and soul . Allah wants man to appreciate woman ,to respect her, to honor her and to love her , and fornication is not the decent way to embody all that.What apperciation is in putting woman through rough times because of unwanted pregnancy .What love is in shunning woman after preying on her body and soul just because man thought he was in love with her but it turned it wasn’t . 4-Woman is treasured as a wife The most divine moments shared by woman and man are sacred that Allah commanded husbands to be kind to their wives . A man for instance is forbidden from forcing his wife to sex “O ye who believe! Ye are forbidden to inherit women against their will. Nor should ye treat them with harshness, that ye may take away part of the dower [money given by the husband to the wife for the marriage contract] ye have given them, except where they have been guilty of open lewdness; on the contrary live with them on a footing of kindness and equity. If ye take a dislike to them it may be that ye dislike a thing, and God brings about through it a great deal of good (Qu’ran An-nisa 19) Anal sex and sex during menstruation are prohibited for their ominous health hazards as well .“If anyone [resorts to a diviner and believes in what he says (according) to the version of Musa) or] has intercourse with his wife (according to the agreed version) when she is menstruating, or has intercourse with his wife through her anus, he has nothing to do with what has been sent down to Muhammad.”—Narrated by Abu Hurairah, Book of Divination and Omens. Suna Abu Dawud. 5-Why 4 wives? Woman has outnumbered men , and man’s marrying four women is Allah’s wisdom to keep woman from falling in the abyss of evil and protect society . It should be noted that Allah allows but does not command a man to have four women .And when marrying 4 , he has to treat them equally. Allah says:
“Marry women of your choice, two or three, or four; but if you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then only one or (the slaves) that your right hands possess. That is nearer to prevent you from doing injustice.” [4:3] or he has to have just one wife . Marriage is so sanctified that Allah’s throne shakes when the sacred bond between husband and wife is broken . In Islam woman must be honored for she holds all secrets of life ,beauty and love.