Never ever feel grudge against the man or the woman you loved once ,instead smile when you remember her or him .
Remember that man or woman was once upon a time a piece of the puzzle of your heart.They taught you lessons about life and most importantly about yourself. They digged things in your soul you have never thought they would be there .They have always been there when you need them. They put up with your flaws when everyone couldn’t.They laughed at your jokes and liked them when others think they are silly .They said sweet things they know you love to hear .They did things you love even if they don’t.They got so concerned when you’re sick .They yell at you when underestimating yourself in front of them.They showed up when you didn’t expect anyone to be there for you .Tell me now how can you feel grudge against the man or the woman who did all those things for your sake?
People must stop using ex-boyfriend or ex-girl friend when talking about their past lovers .I would recommend instead ,the term “my first love” because we carry their love within us, inside our heart through our lifetime. Heart is not a cold cemetery because people, we met in our life and love , don’t die as they touched our life in a way or another and that makes them alive in our heart.Just a smell of perfume they used to wear ,or hearing their name would bring them back down to your world.
You would lie if you say you can’t remember the first man or the first woman you fell in love with .No one can do that;love wound can be healed but it leaves scars,stubborn ones that’s why we can’t forget the way people make us feel .Feelings never die ,love never dies. It just moves home.So stop frowning when you hear the name of your past lover, instead smile and remember how that person gave you a reason to live another day once upon a time .Ex-lovers are teachers and teachers do not stay by our side all our life ,one day they have to leave .
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