When he is uneven sea
The Sea Kiss
Run,run
Let your toes tease the sleepy sand
And unveil hidden beautiful secrets of you .
Don’t be afraid to stumble
The soft wind will be there
To catch you,
And if you fall
Let the tender sea kiss away the pain .
Embrace the shy sun
If she casts upon you
her golden spell,
Don’t be afraid of it ,
Mysterious winter can break it.
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Ocean’s Confessions
Lost recipe of happiness
People around us keep showering recipe of happiness on us , recipes they tried and worked and they wish with all their heart to work for us the way they worked for them , to bring us happiness that we end up with a package of happiness . Some recipes leave us bewildered ,as we ‘re not sure which one to choose . Others muddy the serenity and contentment within us as we start questioning whether the happiness we live is true or fake for none of those recipes is compatible with ours .
Happiness is not a recipe to try ,it can’t be taught either. It’s a unique experience .Sometimes it takes time to figure out what makes us happy .Sometimes we have to endure pain and loss to figure out the essence of our happiness .
Some weave their cloak of happiness from the unconditional love of a mother , from helping people they barely know, from the mere thought that sharing their loaf with a homeless keeps hunger at bay ,from kissing their father’s forehead when asking forgiveness for raising their voice rudely or from seeing others happy even though they have a slight share of their happiness.
Others see happiness as a bubble ; it withers once they have it so they spend their entire life in the pursuit of things they don’t have and they don’t need . Happiness is to have what is in other’s hands as well .
Happiness can wear many masks ;some masks are ugly .Other masks are beautiful and it’s t up to us to choose which one to wear and once choice is defined by one’s up bringing, religious belief, other’s expectations or the way one feels about themselves .
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The sole moon
When your night is starless,don’t blame the lonely moon. Laugh ,because laughter is contagious, and you will see glowing souls adorning the bare sky.
When your flowers fade away,don’t blame the rain. Cry ,and they will wake up, flowers love playing tricks to see how much you love them.
When your heart is broken , don’t blame love. Gather the pieces and gift them to hope. He will find the right person to seal them.
When you fall down,don’t blame life.From ingratitude of others we learn to be grateful.We appreciate our blessings only when losing them.
When your shoes were torn, don’t blame the rocky road.Walk barefoot and feel its soft soul.That was nature’s plot to notice her and to be nice to her.
When a friend betrays you,don’t blame honesty. It’s Lord ‘s way to jog your memory.Look back at your life mirror,you might have betrayed a friend unknowingly once .
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Human coins
We are like coins.Capricious life keeps tossing us mercilessly but when we fall down, we expect people watching to see both sides of us not only one , not only the ugly side.
Always the beloved beautiful daughter in law or the loving wife becomes roots of all evil and must be shunned like a leprous once signed divorce papers. Always ,the dedicated father turns into a devil’s accomplice once he disinherited his child.What about seeing the other side of the coin, that you have always enjoyed .She might be messy, but sometimes a wife becomes one when she’s torn between family obligation and work.She is in bad mood .Well a wife can be a nuisance in the neck if you try to twist her genuine self.
Try to polish the side of the coin that your anger and disappointment blinded your eyes to see , that side on which good qualities are ingrained ,qualities that you loved once upon a time and your happiness flourished in the land of them.That person is the same ,it’s your interpretation of him that has changed due to passing circumstances. We do when people do not meet our expectations which is utterly unfair because we do not live to meet any person’s standards as far as our standards do not hurt others .
His wife was messy but she was hard-working ;she tried her best .She was moody but she was understanding and loving .She never hesitated to admit to her mistake or apologise .Tame yourself to look at people from both sides and that will teach you to be fair when judging them .It will even teach you to never judge them ,for no one is entitled to be in the position of a judge, only the Lord has the right to because he’s the only one who knows what is in our heart and mind .
Remember by seeing the two sides of people in their fall down and strength ,you learn to put yourself in their shoes to understand why they act that way in that situation towards that person. By doing that you find an excuse to them as you, yourself might act the same way or feel the same way or even go too far .
When people fall down in the abyss of anger, of ingratitude,of selfishness,of lies , or misbehavior ; don’t shun them or preach them .Rather, give your hand and lift them up. And the best way to Put up with people in their worst parts is you remembering and reminding them about their best parts they played on the stage of life.
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Learn how to dance with nature
Learn from the rain how to hop and never be afraid to fall down .
Learn from flowers how to bent down and stand in glamor .
Learn from sparrows to spread your arms and embrace the light.
Learn from the wind to swing gracefully and greet all creatures.
Learn from the night to weave a silver veil from the round moon’s shade and share it.
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Your love kept me alive
It’s the love for a childless land that kept a farmer alive.
It’s the love for honor that keeps a wounded soldier alive.
It’s the love for health that keeps the sick alive.
It’s the love for challenge that keeps a mountaineer alive.
It’s the love for hope that keep the unfortunate alive.
Love has many crowns ,but they are all adorned with a precious jewelry of life.
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invade Your ribs, steal your heart beats and play it in tune with the symphony of love .
That she or he left you behind doesn’t mean you’re not worth his /her love .It doesn’t mean that she or he is ungrateful either. Beginnings are like delivering child ;they’re painful ,but they bear life within them . Breaking up is a beginning.It’s a sea that is replete with pearls of hope, of life,of love, and of change .You just have to bend down and gather them to make them a necklace to put around the life and take that crown of sadness, off her beautiful head. Remember when you look back at those days , to look at them with grateful heart ,because she or he set you free to taste the happiness that you deserve, a happiness that you didn’t know with him or her.You wish sometimes that you can turn the clock back to do things differently to make things work .You wouldn’t wish that if that person is worthless. Deep down you believe there is good in him or her,and that giving up on you doesn’t mean she /he is not . The earth never bears grudge against the earthquake ,because she knows ,it’s nature’s way to start a new beginning the next day. There is no timeless earthquake , so is sadness.
That he’s different from you doesn’t mean he’s subordinate to you. Difference is the fount of knowledge, enrichment and enlightenment and beauty. Allah has created legion of different species of flowering plants, animals,fish, and human. Nature taught all creatures to live in peace and harmony for in their differences lies the essence of their survival. But she failed to tame human beings whose differences set their hearts apart ,and torn the map of their souls.You can sow the field of the other ,he can pick the fruits ,that allured his mind ,or soul or heart ,from yours .I’m the other ,you’re the other ,I can teach you a lot about my world to understand it better ,you can enlighten me about yours too to not trod on some traps that might ruin the bridge of harmony we’re trying to build.Because to understand how the other’s world works is the secret of a strong bond .So ,when the other steps into your territory ,gift him a big basket that is replete with amazing traditions, inspiring folktales ,healing stories, instead of aiming your rifle to his heart.
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Childish daylight
When the daylight teases you, embrace it , and don’t take your beautiful eyes away from him. Spread your arms ,and try to race the sun ,and reward yourself with a tender flower for reaching places she can’t reach. Look up at the sky and trace the migrating moon and if he turns round thank him for lightening your solitude. Shred your armors of gloom ,and clothe yourself in attire of hope and joy .It’s a new start .It’s a new day. It’s your gift to complete your unfinished painting of life and there spring is holding in his hand bright colors waiting for your commands.So choose a bright color that personates you , a color of love and hope.
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GoOd night loving earth
A tender kiss on your forehead ,sky
to make your star brighter
to lighten up the night of
those life stole their torch.
A warm hug to spread your
blue blanket over
those life tore their rags.
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Marriage the inescapable blessing
” The fornicator shall not marry save a fornicatress or an idolatress, and the fornicatress, none shall marry her save a fornicator or an idolater; and all that is forbidden unto the believers.”Surah Al-Nur.
Also The Holy Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said: A Muslim man can acquire no benefit after Islam greater than a Muslim wife who makes him happy when he looks at her, obeys him when he commands her, and protects him when he is away from her in herself and in his property.’ Marriage combats deadly sexual diseases,and provides sound pillars for a healthy society and keep the nightmarish future of a clans of illegitimate children away .Besides the spread of immoral crimes like a brother marrying his sister unknowingly , for one of them was the output of a gloomy night of foggy souls driven by lust ,or by wine or by drug. That your marriage collapsed doesn’t mean it’s a barren land.It doesn’t mean that marriage is a house doomed to fall down either .It’s your choice of the rotten seeds that ate it away to the bone.In Islam, man and woman are advised to choose their marriage partners . The Prophet Muhammad may peace be upon him says: “Make a wise selection for your sperm”.He also says: “A wife is chosen for four qualities: her faith, family status, wealth and beauty. Choose the one who is strong in faith”. “If any of you proposes to a woman, he should try to see of her what encourages him to marry her” In another hadith the Prophet is quoted as saying to one of his companions: “Look at her, for that helps to bring you closer together”. It’s very important to choose your partner to ensure the success of marriage psychologically, socially , and sexually.Marriage is that armor that will protect the soul and body of society against corruption ,so try your best to not dim its light by making the right decisions and choosing the right partner. Written by arabian roses.
Was it worth it?
Was it worth it to let a friend in need down ? If you do, who’s then going to carry your coffin? Only a friend’s shoulder can bear the weight of your cold bones.
Was it worth it to scream at your old mother ? If you do, how then are you going to pay her lost whispers to sooth your young frail soul back? Only your tender voice can empower her weakness.
Was it worth it to unveil a woman or a man’s sins ? If you do, how then do you expect the Almighty to cover yours? Only your prayers for them can dim the darkness of sin in you.
Was it worth it to argue with your neighbor on worldly possessions? If you do then who’s going to dig your grave? Only a neighbor and a father and a son weep when entrusting the earth with you .
Was it worth it to tak life from people ? If you do ,then who’s going to share with you winter ? Only human beings can dance under the rain.
Was it worth it to fight for worldly possessions that we will leave behind us when we die and take none ? Was it worth it to spend all our lifetime drowned in hatred because of tiny differences that Allah has created to keep monotony and brooding clouds away from our life and grow seeds of compassion in our souls?
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Devil’s bait
Soul is a holy pearl and body is its earthly home. Deep , mischievous waves were striving to fling it on the land of sins but they broke against the sound rocks of a believing heart till the guileful evil sewed for them disguise costumes to make the body yield to its desires and temptation and it can steal that pearl of its whiteness purity and chastity . Those costumes are drinking, lying ,stealing, adultery, but the ugliest one of them is masturbation.
It angers the Almighty
Masturbation is evil ‘s bait to entrap a Muslim in committing sins and strips him of his cloak of chastity and virtue and clothe him in corruption and vice .Chastity does not only entail you keeping fornication, adultery sodomy at bay. But it also entails you keeping from the distorted way to satisfy lust; masturbation .The latter rots the soul and the body and angers the Almighty who commands us to “and those who do not find the means to marry should remain chaste until Allah gives them resources by his grace. Al Muminoon : verse 32.” In that The one who masturbates will be among the seven persons whom Allah will not look at them on the day of judgment ,nor will he include them amongst the learned and Allah will enter them into the hell .They will enter the hell first except those who repent. As for those who repent Allah will accept their repentance .Those 7 persons are :
1-A person who masturbates
2-A person who performs the act of sodomy.
3-The person upon who the act of sodomy is performed.
4-A perpetual drunkard .
5-The person who hits his parents so much so that they appeal for help .
6-The person who harms his neighbors so much that they curse him.
7-The person who commits adultery with his neighbor’s wife. ( Ibn Katheer . Vol 5 . pg 458)
A journey to the cemetery of diseases .
An unending journey with diseases
Masturbation is a fleeting pleasure that will chain your body to perpetual diseases. Medical science have proven that masturbation :
– enfeebles sexual organ in that it creates looseness in it.
– creates seminal (spermatic) inflammation in the testicle which causes quick ejaculation of sperm.
– weakens the very delicate veins and fine nerves and veins of the sexual organs resulting in sexual impotency.
– causes an excessive loss of sperm by way of nocturnal emission .( wet dreams)
– causes an excessive loss of blood as it takes 80 drops of blood to produce one drop of sperm.
– weakens the eye-sight and reduces its normal limit of vision.
– – weakens cerebral of glands of the brain which in turn enfeebles the power of perception and reason .
– weakens memory as well.
To masturbate is growing a seed of a tree the fruit of which are rotten and you will be the only to taste those sickly fruits ,that’s you have to uproot it if you sprinkled some in your sacred body .
Repentance
When committing sins or transgressing Allah’s laws ,the human feels ashamed and down hearted. When sinned , fall on your knees and plead for his forgiveness . Deep down, we know that we have a merciful creator who is there who ,when we sin ,keeps praying and his angels for us to go back to him ,to repent and ask forgiveness .Allah loves those who repent because it shows that they know there is a creator to whom we resort when our souls troubled,a creator from whom we ask forgiveness when transgressing his laws, laws that he set for our welfare and well-being. When Allah forbids something , we know deep down that he does that because it bears seeds of corruption, and sickness in it.
Prophet Muhammad may peace be upon him said:”The person who repents from sins is the beloved of Allah and he become like the those who have not committed sins.”( Ibn Majah)
Repentance ‘s seeds are
– To feel ashamed
– To discard the sin committed and to resolve on abstaining from it in the future.
– Du’aa
– Prophet Muhammad may peace be upon him said:” Verily ,your Lord is modest and kind .When a slave lifts both hands towards Allah then he (Allah ) feels shy to return them to him empty-handed and disappointed.” ( Abu Dawood,Tirmidhi)
Fasting
Hurairah Radia Allah Anhu said :” For everything there is a purifier and the purifier of the body is fasting.”
Fasting is the best technique to discipline the self and dims its desires as fasting increases the fear of Allah. Regardless to the summer heat we, Muslims keep fasting waiting to hear azan ;Allah’s call for breaking our .We do that not for him Allah not to please anyone else .It reported from Abdullah bin Amr radi allah anhu that prophet Muhammad may peace be upon him said:” fasting and Quran will intercede for a servant .Fasting will say :” O my RabbnI prevented him from food and desire during the day so accept my intercession on his behalf.The Quran will say :” I prevented him from sleeping during the night so accept my intercession on his behalf.” Hence the intercession from both will be accepted . ( Mishkat pg 173).
Lower gaze
Allah says :” Say O Nabi to the believing men that they should lower their gaze and protect their private parts.This is more pure for them .Indeed Allah is well-aware of what they do.”
Sleep wrapped with purity
To sleep on their right-hand sides and recite Quran till sleep overpowers you. Death you will be pure .
Allah can see what you’re doing
Allah is acquainted with what we do .He IS all-knowing omniscient .He’s the king and king of kings should be respected and revered.Not t o mention his anger seeing you doing things he forbid . Ibn Jauzi said:”By the oath of Allah ,a person’s thirst to commit a sin will only be quenched when despite having the ardent desire and capability to do it ,realizes that Allah Talla is looking at him feels ashamed and consequently discards the sin.”
Punishment of Masturbation
Hadhrat Anas narrates that Rasulullah (Sallallaahu Alayhi Wasallam) said,’The person who performs Nikah with his hands (i.e. maturbates) is cursed. (Tafseer Mazhari vo.12 p.94)
Saeed bin Jubayr narrates that Rasulullah (Sallaahu Alayhi Wasallam) said, Allah Taala will inflict a punishment on a group of people because they played with their private parts.’
Ataa (RA) says, ‘Some people will be resurrected in such a condition that their hands will be pregnant, I think they are those who masturbate.’
A muslim’s sign is childlike eyes and a body that is as pure as dewdrop,so do not tarnish them with passing evil thoughts.
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